Since you and your spouse decided to divorce, your spouse seems to have declared war on you. They have become hateful and vengeful toward you and have taken an attitude of victory at all costs. Kindness and consideration are off the table. As they spew their venom at you, you find it more challenging to remain calm and reach an agreement beneficial to both parties.
Quite honestly, staying above the fray with your soon-to-be ex-spouse is getting much more difficult. This blog shares tips on “How To Stay Above the Fray During a Contested Divorce.”
Staying Above the Fray
Divorce isn’t easy, but a contested divorce can bring out the ugliness in both parties. It’s tempting to join in the fray when emotions are running high. But staying above the fray can protect your dignity and increase your chances for success in the courtroom. Judges are only human. They don’t just look at the legal arguments in a contested divorce; they also see and can’t help but be affected by behavior. Lashing out, spreading negativity, or engaging in dirty tactics can reflect poorly on you.
Staying calm and dignified in the courtroom will enhance your credibility and often impact child custody and support rulings, as well as asset division.
Practical Tips to Help You Stay Above the Fray
Staying above the fray in a contested divorce isn’t easy. However, it’s worth it. Keep your emotions in check. This will help with both your case and your peace of mind. Here are some tips that might help you:
- Keep Communication Civil. Do not lash out at your spouse.
- Stay Away From Social Media. Anything you post can be held against you.
- Don’t Drag the Children Into the Fray. Keep the kids out of it.
- Follow All Court Orders. Not following court orders will make you seem uncooperative.
Fighting fire with fire is tempting, but staying composed will serve you better in the long run.
Not only is it difficult for you to stay above the fray, but it may also be challenging to find a qualified family law attorney who can stay above the fray. Finding an experienced attorney who can be a pit bull when necessary but who shares your desire to stay above the fray is essential.
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