Millions of people get divorced each year. And if there’s one month they all seem comfortable doing it in, it’s January. Whether or not you believe that is up to you, but the fact remains that if you plan to be one of those couples who divorce early in 2024, it’s essential to prepare for divorce in the New Year sooner rather than later.
How can you be better prepared for what happens next after such a massive life decision? Read today’s blog post to find out.
First Things First — Why Do People Divorce More in January?
Numerous studies conducted by law firms, universities, and various media outlets such as The New York Times have tracked divorce rates for years. This includes a 2016 study by the University of Washington that examined divorce filings over a 14-year span (2001 to 2015). In that study, there was consistent evidence of divorce proceedings beginning in January.
Granted, that same study also said there are noticeable spikes in cases during different times of the year, including March through August. But it is believed the process for many of those cases started a few months earlier — in January.
Most people still have a hard time seeing divorce as a seasonal thing, but there are a few logical reasons why it’s true:
- People don’t want to get divorced during the holidays.
- A negative holiday season may be the final straw for a marriage that’s already on the rocks.
- Conversely, many people think they might save their marriage during the holidays, so they delay divorce.
- Couples previously on the fence about divorce see January as a fresh starting point.
That said, deciding to divorce is never easy. Once you do, preparing for whatever comes next is important.
Here Are 5 Ways To Prepare for Divorce in 2024.
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Learn how the divorce process works
Having a solid baseline of knowledge about how the divorce process works — even if some of what someone else experienced doesn’t apply to your situation — can ease some of your concerns because you have an idea regarding what to expect. It is always best to consult with an attorney to ensure you’re getting the most accurate legal advice possible.
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Know your options
The reality is that marriages end peacefully all the time and don’t always reach a courtroom. So, if you don’t mind working together, mediation and collaborative divorce help couples peacefully negotiate all the terms of their divorce (debt division, custody, spousal support, property division, etc.) in a neutral setting with their attorneys present.
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Take your time and think ahead for life’s what-ifs
A few examples include how you will tell your kids and family that you’re getting divorced, new living arrangements, existing and future job opportunities, and even how you will pay for the divorce. Answering these and many more questions helps give you a clearer picture of what you want to achieve from this divorce and what life can look like when the dust settles.
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Gather your financial records and organize critical paperwork
Understanding your financial situation saves time and money, makes your lawyer’s job easier, and also gives you peace of mind that you have everything you need right at your fingertips. Examples of relevant paperwork and financial information include bank statements, investment information, tax returns, retirement accounts, real estate deeds, credit card bills, mortgage information, etc.
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Hire an experienced and compassionate attorney
You do not want to attack divorce alone, even if you feel prepared. Find someone with experience with your type of case, but also make sure their team of attorneys is solutions-minded and has their clients’ best interests at heart. Discuss the case with them and understand how they will walk you through the process.
Divorce will always be difficult, but we want you to approach your unique situation with positive habits and the right frame of mind from the very beginning. Doing so will hopefully get you and your family through these challenging times. Christman | Daniell Attorneys is committed to supporting and guiding you through the dark days of marital discord and crisis with a unique and refreshing approach to the often turbulent and emotionally stressful disputes arising in the context of divorce, child custody, and other family law cases.
We hope this blog post was a positive step in that direction. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
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