Divorce is hard for anyone, but no one is more impacted emotionally and financially than stay-at-home moms. Sure, they will likely be awarded child support and alimony with the separation. They’ll also have their children by their side, plus the ability to finally move on from a difficult and emotionally draining relationship. But the mere fact that they are officially “on their own” can feel overwhelming and quickly shake their confidence like nothing else.
We aren’t going to pretend that life after divorce is easy, especially if being married is all you’ve ever known and you relied on your spouse for financial support. Perhaps you didn’t even want the divorce in the first place.
But we can promise you there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
To that end, our team of attorneys at Christman | Daniell has compiled a few practical divorce tips and strategies to consider for stay-at-home moms navigating the divorce process for the first time.
Practical Divorce Tips for Stay-at-Home Moms
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Connect with an attorney as soon as possible
While your upcoming or in-process divorce may come as a shock to you, you can’t afford to let it incapacitate you emotionally and mentally. Find a recommended attorney you can trust and have a meeting to evaluate your situation and make a plan going forward. No one expects you to navigate this situation alone or understand your legal rights. A divorce attorney can shoulder this burden for you.
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Gather financial information
Make sure you gather copies of bank statements, tax returns, investment accounts, debts, credit reports, and other financial documents. Your attorney will guide you throughout this process so that you know where to look and what to look for. Knowing these details of your family’s finances will help you plan for your financial future now and long after the divorce is finalized.
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Remember that “his” money is also “your” money
Texas is a community-property state. So, regardless of what others may have told you, you are entitled to your share of the family income. You have worked just as hard as a stay-at-home mom and deserve your fair share.
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Think about a custody and co-parenting plan
Your children should be at the center of every decision you make. Work with your attorney to devise a clear custody arrangement. A clear parenting plan will minimize misunderstandings regarding visitation and custody and ensure stability for your children.
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Build a support system
Divorce can be an isolating experience for stay-at-home moms, often leaving you feeling overwhelmed by everything. This is when having a support system is more important than ever. Leaning on friends and family can provide comfort and support. Also, joining a divorce support group offers an opportunity to share experiences and gain practical advice from other women who understand what you’re going through.
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Be prepared for emotional challenges
Divorce is emotionally taxing for stay-at-home moms, and being prepared for the emotional ups and downs can help you navigate pain and uncertainty. Allow yourself to feel your emotions and process them, and do not hesitate to seek professional help if you need it.
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Stay positive about your future
While it may seem that your future is over, that is far from the truth. Keeping a positive mindset will help you rebuild your life and, most importantly, model resilience for your children. Focus on creating new goals, celebrating small victories, and building a new chapter for yourself.
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Start establishing your financial plan
As the divorce is being finalized, and especially afterward, it’s important that you establish your own financial identity as quickly as possible. Open an account in your name, start looking for jobs, and set aside money as soon and as often as you can. Establishing your independence early on will make the process you face go a little more smoothly.
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